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سيليا ثناء جوابرة

هاد الاسبوع ضج الفيسبوك وضجت الاخبار باخبار الطفل تمير و عن حادثة انتحاره بسبب التنمر والمقاطعه الاجتماعية. قبلها باسبوع كنا نحكي عن الشهيده اسراء غريب وعن قتلها بطريقه وحشيه دونما سبب الا لانها انثى يجب السيطرة عليها وتطبيعها وتعليمها الادب بمفهوم الوحوش من مجتمعها.

انا حاليا بدي احكي عن العنف الاجتماعي الي انا شخصيا عانيت منه.
قبل سنتين قررت ابطل البس الحجاب (بحبش كلمة خلع الحجاب). طبعا لكنْ التخيل بكميات العنف الي قُوبلت فيها، مش عنف جسدي انما عنف اجتماعي يتمثل بالتالي:
1- النظرات …. و كأنك عامله اكبر الكبائر او قاتله حدا على الاقل
2- الاستغابه ما ضل حدا ما حكى بالموضوع و ما حكى عني و عن صفاتي و عن كيف وليش وشو وونتى وكيف تنو …….
شغلت الراي العام ابو كم شهر.

3- التبلي وصفك بما ليس فيكِ … وكأنك انحدرتي من السُلَم الأخلاقي و الإنساني
4- مُحاولات ثني عن الموضوع ونقاشات ما الها داعي. اذا اخذنا بالاعتبار اني امراة ناضجه تستطيع اخذ القرارت لوحدها
5- بوستات تشهير بالفسيبوك.
6- دعوات للمقاطعه الاجتماعية.

ما بدي افوت على تفاصيل السبب الي خالاني ابطل البس الحجاب، من حقي تكونلي الحريه اقرر ، ان كان ذالك في لبس الحجاب او عدم لبسه ، هاد قرار شخصي ومش قضية رأي عام.

المشكله الوحيده عندي بالموضوع هو الانغلاق واستثناء كل ما لا يشبهنا ب 100% …. و كأننا لم نسمع قول عز من قائل :" شعوب وقبائل لتعارفوا" يعني اذا انت مش زي بالزبط، ما الك محل بالمجموعه ومش بس هيك, لأ بنخرجك و بنفقد اخلاقنا بالتعامل معك وبصير تعاملنا معك بشبه تعاملنا مع بعض الحيوانات الضاله …..
– نسيوا اخلاقيات الاسلام
– ما سمعوا بالرسوال عليه الصلاة والسلام بقول: انما بعثت لاتمم مكارم الاخلاق.
– ما سمعوا الايه الي بخاطب فيها الله الرسول عليه الصلاة والسلام:" لو كنت فظا غليظ القلب لانفضوا من حولك"

بذكر مره سالتني طالبه ليش البنات الي كانوا محجبات لم يشيلوا الحجاب ببالغوا بالامر، بصيروا كأنهم ولا مره لبسوه؟!
قولتها كلامك مزبوط ، السبب هو الهجمه الشعواء الي بتلقوها من المتدينين والمتدينات الي بتخليها تكره التدين و الدين وتقرر تبعد عنه قد ما بتقدر.

بتذكر انه بالفتره القريبه الي صار فيها الامر، كنت احاول ما اسمع شو بحكوا، كنت خايفه على نفسي من أذية المتدينات و المتدينين، لاني بحب اخدم مجتمعي بكل شرائحه وكنت اخاف انه هجومهم علي يخليني ما احب التعامل معهم.
الحمد لله تعديت هاي المرحلة بسلام مع دعم من حولي من عائلة واصدقاء.

طبعا الهجمه ما كانت بسب خوف الي بهاجموني على علاقتي بالله……. لا ابداً ، كل من تفكر بهذا الامر بتكون واهمه ! الهجوم سببه اني بطلت ابين اني وحده من هذه المجموعه ، مع اني قلبيا انتمي لها وبالعكس اخصص اغلب نشاطي الاجتماعي لها ولكن هذا لا يهم …. وكننا جزء من قطيع يجب ان نتشابه في كل شيء ….. و انا اقول لا….. لسنا قطيع لا يجب ان نتشابه بكل شيء لننتمي لنفس المجموعه والعمل على تحقيق مصالحها، هذه المجموعه عليها ان تتعلم تقبل الاخر باسرع وقت وعليها فتح الدوائر و استقبال الأُخريات.

مش مفروض يكون الامر هلقد صعب… مش مفروض تغير قررتي تحققيه بخصك انت فقط يسبب زلزال للمحيط … مش لازم نكون كلنا متشابهين.

و انا ليش بكتبلكن/م كل هاد و مغلبه حالي …. لاني ما بحب تكون بينا بنت لابسه الحجاب غصب …. طاعة الله ما بتجوز غصب ….. ما بحب انه صبيه قررت ما تلبس الحجاب تُقابل بهاد النوع من الهجوم …. مش كل النفسيات بتتحمل وزي ما ذكرت احنا من لحم ودم …. تنوعنا و اختلافنا شيء مفيد لمجتمعنا و لكل مجتمع …. استطاع الله عز وجل يخلقتا جميعا متشابهين ولكن اله حكمه في اختلافنا …..
وسعوا قلوبكن/م ….. خففوا من الحكم وتدريج البشر ….

كمان امر بحب اختم فيه مع اني طولت عليكو/ن
لا تنتهجوا المقاطعه الاجتماعية ولا مع حدا ….. انتم تتعاملون مع بشر من لحم ودم …..
بتختلفي معها…… ماشي
حاسه انك احسن منها … تمام
عامليها بالاخلاق واحتسبي الاجر عند الله!


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